The other morning Sandler woke up and jumped out of bed eager to get the day started. I could not quite figure out what he was so excited about since it was a week day and his morning routine usually consists of some moaning, groaning and complaints about getting ready for school. Instead, he was fully dressed with his shirt on inside out and backwards and socks that did not match—but one on each foot nonetheless. After applying his Incredible Hulk deodorant and doing the sniff test, he flew out of the bathroom and said he was ready to go to his doctor appointment.

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I am the first to admit that before I had kids, I imagined when I did, they would be rich and famous, professional athletes, innovators who cure disease and famine, or professors who teach the world to be a better place. Then I had them, and realized those thoughts were just pipe dreams. What I actually wanted, is for them to be healthy and happy.

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Thanksgiving is not only one of my favorite holidays because of the traditions and time spent with family and friends, but it is also the time of the year when Sandler reveals all the things for which he is thankful. I always eagerly anticipate the hilarious and honest list, hoping I make it somewhere in the top ten, and this year’s checklist did not disappoint. In honor of the holiday, this blog is Sandler’s actual Thanksgiving list:

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Sandler was thrilled when he found a new app that allows him to communicate with Santa. Being so close to Christmas, Santa must be quite busy, however, he has been quick to respond and answer almost all of Sandler’s questions. Fortunately, he has not said yes or no to bringing the requested gifts, but has mentioned it depends on Sandler’s behavior—if he is naughty or nice. I always appreciate a little back up in that department.

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As we drove home from a three and half hour skate session, Sandler asked me if we could stop by Rite Aid and get a flu shot. Absolutely baffled by his request, I asked him why in the world he would want to get an excruciating shot in the arm. His response was quick to the point, “Because I don’t want one for Christmas!” (Apparently, he has been stewing about his well-check where he is scheduled to get the flu vaccine in December). I could not believe he remembered his appointment, but even more impressive was his initiative to be done with the imminent pain. However, knowing no kid in their right mind would elect to get a flu shot, I passed by the pharmacy and changed the subject.

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Kids these days have no idea how good they have it. Every other day seems to be a holiday, conference week, or break—rarely requiring their attendance at school. In fact, they even get to miss November 1st; providing them the luxury to nurse the Halloween hangover. Although against the unnecessary “vacation” days, I do support a day of rest after trick-or-treating.

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Sandler has always had a soft spot for homeless people and those he sees as less fortunate. He has been a philanthropist ever since I can remember. Whenever an opportunity arrises, he does not hesitate to jump in and help where he can.

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It seems to be common practice these days for therapists and self help books to suggest stepping out of one’s comfort zone and facing fears. I am beginning to realize life with Sandler has me practicing these methods daily. In fact, a typical hour with him far exceeds a session with a therapist. He does not even give me the chance to back out. He has me facing fears I never knew I had.

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There is usually a fitting theme song to whichever exciting events are taking place in Sandler’s life. This week the signature tune has been “The Gambler” by Kenny Rogers. I had not really thought lyrics about gambling would have any meaning in his life at his age, but per usual, the unexpected has presented itself.

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